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FRIENDS

Created on: 12/30/17 09:13 AM Views: 1436 Replies: 1
FRIENDS
Posted Saturday, December 30, 2017 09:13 AM

Have a good friend who sent the following. Thought I would share it with class of 64. Times/circumstances have not allowed closer contact but there is seldom a week that has passed in 50+ years that I, for one, am not reminded of times in M'town and school years with you all.Enjoy...sure it will be applicable as I have applied it, but even more so for your class of 64 day-in, day-out interactions! Enjoy - the blessings

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I'm grateful to have you as one of mine!

NEVER FORGET YOUR FRIENDS!

A newlywed young man was sitting on the porch on a hot, humid day, sipping iced tea with his father.

As he talked about adult life, marriage, responsibilities, and obligations, the father thoughtfully stirred the ice cubes in his glass and cast a clear, sober look on his son.

“Never forget your friends,” he advised, “they will become more important as you get older.”

“Regardless of how much you love your family and the children you happen to have, you will always need friends. Remember to go out with them occasionally, do activities with them, call or communicate with them ...”

“What strange advice!” Thought the young man. “I just entered the married world, I am an adult and surely my wife and the family that we will start will be everything I need to make sense of my life.”

Yet he obeyed his father.  He kept in touch with his friends and annually increased their number.  Over the years, he became aware that his father knew what he was talking about.

Inasmuch as time and nature carry out their designs and mysteries on a man, friends were the bulwarks of his life.

After 60 years of life, here is what he learned:

    Time passes.

    Life goes on.

    Distance separates.

    Children grow up and become independent; it breaks the parents' hearts, but the children become separated from the parents. 

    Jobs come and go..

    Illusions, desires, attraction, sex ... weaken.

    People do not do what they should do.

    The heart breaks.

    The parents die

    Colleagues forget the favors.

    The races are over.

    But true friends are always there, no matter how many miles away they are or for how long.

    A friend is never more distant than the reach of a need, intervening in your favor, waiting for you with open arms or blessing your life.

When we started this adventure called LIFE, we did not know of the incredible joys or sorrows that were ahead.  We did not know how much we would need from each other.  Love your parents, take care of your children, and keep a group of good friends.. 

Oh... you might send this to your friends (even those you seldom see) who help make sense of your life ...  I just did...

Dennis Hubbard

 
RE: FRIENDS
Posted Saturday, December 30, 2017 12:29 PM
What a great read and so true! It has been fun to stay connected with close friends from MHS. But, also special to form new friendships with classmates I didn't hang out with during HS. Thanks for sharing this, Dennis. Thanks for being a friend.
KC (Sharon Collins)